I am writing my heart today! Life is a very precious gift from God and we all as a human being need to thank the creature as well as the family where we belong, specially our parents.

But life is not always the same as we thought, with every passing day the chapter of life will change.

I am writing this today as it’s really close to my heart, i am kind of a person who gives everything to the relations for the past 30 years of my life, although i am just 33 today the reason i delete the 3 early years of my childhood is that i don’t exactly remember that time, although i have a very good and sharp childhood memories.

Relations are beautiful but as long as someone understands you, most of the time nature will give you so many awesome reasons to live in the form of family and at the same time that family relations will become really painful. 

The same happened to me. Sometime your unconditional love will become your biggest enemy, i try to do whatever the best i can for the each and every member of my family but unfortunately my struggle for the wellbeing of my family makes me lonely as i was not able to match the expectations or i might wish too much high for them for the betterment, upbringing, uplifting  and the prosperity of those relations who does not really care after giving my best and the happening yearly personal married life to my siblings and parents, today i believe that i was totally wrong, i have given my precious life time to those who don’t really deserve this much of Love. 

Because everyone has a different mind set and we cannot match with others’ minds, sometimes your love will make people uncomfortable that they don’t want to look-back at your unconditional love. Sometimes we give too much to them without understanding that this will make the other person uncomfortable.

The purpose of writing this whole story is to massage myself and so many other people in this world, that it’s perfectly  OK TO MOVE ON. Sometimes people do not deserve the love and care you are trying to give to them, sometimes your relationship with your family members is toxic that will ultimately start affecting your inner peace. This is the time where you need to quit the toxic junk out of your brain and your life. When a relationship will start affecting the other beautiful areas of your life this is a clear sign that it is time to cutt them off. 

Any relationship becomes toxic when it’s affecting your mind, your career, your thoughts and your emotional wellbeing.

Research shows that if a person continuously gives you the same negativity and creates negativity around you this is the time to quit this toxic relationship. Such people will only make you sick, give you a gift of depression and anxiety, they will drag you to their level down and beat you with words, because they don’t have anything creative in their life. 

They only drag you down to their level to prove themselves right, they will give you blame for their own failures in life and the wrong decisions they have made so far. Remember that, you will never ever find any critic doing better than you.

We all struggle with relationships in our life. It might be the relation with your boyfriend, girlfriend, siblings or parents, some of the time our closest relations will become as much toxic that we don’t want them back in our life again, they were the same relations to whom you give your life your most precious time and your soul they will destroy you as badly that you don’t want to see them back. 

Some people cannot and will not change, grow and get better in life. They will put allegations of their failures to you and use your shoulder to hide the blunders they made. 

Sometimes the same relationship teaches you how to become selfish in life,  and you will start to become selfish, this is the good time to take care of yourself, because if you don’t take care of yourself how can you fight with the rest of your so-called relations and enemies around you.

But remember not every battle is for fight, sometimes the flowers were beautiful once on the plant but it does not mean you should hold them for the rest of your life”. 

Similarly the relations were good as long as you have the same dreams, you enjoy their success and you cry when they cry, when they  feel proud of your success they enjoy being you as part of you. They don’t want to change you, they don’t put allegations on you. But when your own blood relations start questioning you especially the ones you loved and loved deeply. Especially those to whom you had ginev  the most beautiful & precious time of your personal life just to care for them and protect them from the hot air around.

This is the time to realize the bitterness of your relationships. Sometimes you give your best but the other person only listens as per his thought process.

Remember that the  fruit of cactus will never be sweet ever, they give you the bitterness of their mind, don’t keep them for the rest of your life and move on ….. 

Give them time because time is the biggest teacher…. Let them go and grow and be awesome within your own thoughts and win the battle with a smile & love, you will be the winner of your life and trust me your one smile will win all the battles… 

Keep Rocking & be awesome for those who really deserve your unconditional Love.

My Trendy soul wishes you good health wealth and Prosperity.